One of the things I love about photo sessions is how they freeze our lives in place. Years from now, we'll be able to time travel back into these brief moments with our children merely by looking at a beautiful photograph. Oh yes, that’s what it felt like to touch her feet. To smell his soft curls. To lean my head against hers.
And it’s amazing to see not just one moment in our lives captured, but a series of moments over the years. Clients who’ve come back to the studio more than once get to see more than one of those bonding moments, those deeply special connections. Look how small her hands were next to mine. And look at his squishy little round cheeks. Was he ever that small? Photographs can be such a gift, and it’s my joy to get to take part in the process of freezing those memories. A physical representation of your love for your children growing, maturing, expanding through the years. I've photographed this sweet mama and her son every year for three years, since he was 8 months old. It's been really touching to see him grow up, and to see his mom evolve as a parent. Their sessions are always such a beautiful representation of their love, and their evolving relationship, and I really treasure getting to see this sweet boy growing up. Nothing stands still in childhood. Things change minute to minute, day to day. And we change with it. You can see in these photographs how these two have evolved. It's absolutely stunning. How can so much shift in just a few years?
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Do you have a rough and rowdy, playful family? Do you worry about how that will translate on camera? Are your kids high energy? Stepping into the studio might seem like something you're not prepared to do. How will the photographs turn out? What will your children do? How will you keep everyone sane and happy? How will you make it look like your family has achieved that kind of calm that you're always seeing in other families' photographs? I think quite a lot of moms come into the studio kind of stressed. Kind of over it. Kind of burned out. Because motherhood is an absolute crapshoot. We're dealing with a constant stream of challenges and issues we didn't imagine the day before, or maybe it's the same stuff over and over. It's complex, it's grating, it's frustrating. We're holding the emotions of our children in our hearts at all times, and it can be truly exhausting. But in every session, I find that there are always always always moments of real deep beauty. Because children flash in and out of deep emotions with real clarity and fluidity. All you have to do is meet them there. Don’t worry about where they’re looking (many a photograph has been ruined by a worried mom pointing at the camera so their kid will look at me). Don’t worry about the kids’ faces. Their faces will go through 1000 emotions in an hour, and I’ll take 1000 photographs. It’s much more challenging for a mama to be in the moment than for a child to arrive in joy or play. The barriers for them are so very low. A goofy look from you, a sound they didn’t expect, a fart joke. They’ll arrive at joy. You just have to be prepared to meet them there. Give them a soft place to land. If they spend most of the session testing your boundaries, then we’ve got a typical kid on our hands. So don’t sweat it. Join in with fun. We’re going to get those beautiful shots. This session was absolute chaos. And I know the mama in the photographs wouldn’t mind me saying so. She has a big, vivacious, loving, high-energy family with a spread of about 10 years with twins in the middle. The mama spent our session together in a mode of (mostly -- after all, she’s also human) release from control. She seemed to let go of the “make it all look perfect” thing that we definitely all have eating at us at all times. She didn’t, and I certainly didn’t, pose the kids. Make them act happy. We just let them loose. Let them play. And the photographs feel like them, I think. They feel wild and fun and full of the energy of their amazing family. Nothing was controlled, and that’s ok. In fact, it’s a beautiful, amazing gift. One of the things I absolutely love about these photographs is the kinetic energy. Nothing (and no one) is standing still. They were constantly moving and shuffling around, showing their bonds with their siblings and their mom. It was 100% play, and I was there for it.
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